Creative Dating Ideas

Make Dating Interesting 

Dating can be one of the most exciting milestones in life. It’s the romantic start of a new relationship and a form of  getting to know your person of interest a little better. Back in the old days, the word “Courting” was the proper terminology to use when a man was interested in a woman. When a man “courts” a woman, he is emotionally investing all of his time and possibly a future with her. What romantic phase are you in? Let’s hope at least one of the two…..here’s how you can make your date life or love life more interesting and affordable keep reading!

Did you know that dinner and a movie is one of the most popular dates? It has been for years! There’s nothing wrong with dinner and a movie it’s just become mediocre which makes it a bit difficult to make a good first impression. How about spice it up a bit …..where you can save money and still have an amazing time. You don’t need to spend so much money on a date especially when it’s a possibility that you won’t get a second date. Where’s the fun in that? Dating can be made so simple and easy. It’s all up to you. Either way, you want to keep having lots of fun with that special someone.

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Benefits of Dating

  1. You’ll always have someone to do things with.
  2. Helps you develop your personality.
  3. Help you learn to get along socially.
  4. You can decide whether this special someone is worth spending your life with.

While you are dating that special someone, make sure you are dating with a purpose. What do I mean? What is your ultimate goal for yourself and your love life? Make it meaningful and worth sacrificing your precious time. Make every moment count! When two people become romantically involved, they begin to bond emotionally. Even though there are no commitments, two single people begin increasingly thinking of themselves as a couple. They are seen together and viewed as a couple by their friends. They are bonding and becoming emotionally glued together. So just make sure when you get to this point that you are fulfilling your date life with purpose and not just wasting your time or theirs.

Dating Do’s and Don’ts

  •  DON’T convince yourself you only have one “type.”
  • DO widen your definition of a compatible mate. Open yourself to the possibility that you can fall in love with someone who doesn’t perfectly meet the criteria that you believe is your ideal or particular “type.”
  • DON’T be overly critical or judgmental.
  • DO approach others with curiosity, kindness, and compassion. Premature dismissals of someone are a one-way ticket to overlooking a potentially great love match.
  • DON’T come on too strong! Watch yourself for behaviors that could be constured as needy, desperate, unstable, or otherwise undesirable.
  • DO respect the natural progression of intimacy. Telling a potential mate how much you really, really like them adds a lot of unnecessary pressure! Instead, gradually reveal your inner thoughts, feelings, and personal story starting with light and casual then progressing to deeper, more intimate self-disclosures.
  •  DON’T forget the traditional rules of dating.
  • DO be a gentlemen/lady. Some rules of dating have stood the test of time. Yes, we live in a modern world in which women can pay for themselves and open their own door. Still, it’s nice when the man foots the bill after a dinner date. Likewise, ladies shouldn’t try to be just one of the guys.
  • DON’T be overly influenced by expectations of family and friends such as, “Does she practice the same religion? Is he the same race, or does he have the desired financial/educational status?”
  • Do find a balance with considering the opinions of others, while staying in touch with your own intuition regarding who is a compatible match for you. When you acknowledge your wants and needs, it’s more likely you’ll land a lasting relationship. Ditch the long laundry list written by everyone else, but you!
  • DON’T get lost talking about yourself and your past, including the mistakes, heartaches, who you were ten years ago or even in your last relationship. When getting to know someone in a new relationship, they want to know who you are today not how you were in a past relationship or lifetime.
  • DO talk about yourself as who you are today in the present and the values and goals you have for yourself in the future.
  • DON’T monopolize the conversation or make yourself the highlight real, no one healthy or worthwhile being in a relationship with is interested in getting into a coupleship with a narcissist.
  • DO make the conversation reciprocal, be inquisitive and show your interest in getting to know the other person.
  •  DON’T alter who you are to fit what you think your love interest wants/needs. When we alter who we are and portray values that are not our own, we attract people we were never meant to attract, therefore the relationship is doomed before it begins.
  • DO present yourself authentically. It is much easier than putting forth the energy required to pretend.
  • DON’T complain about your lack of luck with love or blame your city’s [insert city name here] dating scene!
  • DO keep in mind that dating isn’t easy for anyone, no matter where you live. You can blame your location, the ratio of singles to couples, or even the weather. Bottom line, our attitude is more likely to create opportunities for us. Leave your carry-on luggage packed full of negativity at baggage claim.
  •  DON’T stop pursuing new hobbies and other life experiences just because you’ve found a partner. Be cautious of giving up or limiting the time you spend doing things for “you”, whether this be exercise, the beach, reading, cooking, spending time with friends, etc.  Finding a romantic connection can be so exciting and exhilarating that it’s easy to lose sight of life before meeting this person.
  • DO practice balancing “you” time with “couple” time from the very beginning of the relationship. Evaluate each situation and decide when the needs of the couple are a priority and vice versa, decide when your individual needs are a priority.

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Your dates will be so impressed with your outings that they will certainly tell all their friends how romantic and creative you are.
Ladies, you also should come up with creative ideas to enhance your date life as well! We can’t let the men do all of the work….this is a team effort if you want your dating life or current relationships to be a success.